Sign Of Infidelity - The most common infidelity sign is also the one most people accept in today s hectic lifestyles.

You may already be suspecting your spouse is having an affair. You may already be on the look for clues. Do you know what the most obvious sign is?

The problem is with the most obvious clue about an affair is that it is integral to the frenzied corporate culture in which many people work. Many couples experience this as normal to their lives without actually being in marital trouble.

The number one indicator of adultery is excessive overtime. This is because ninety percent of extramarital affairs occur between people who are co-workers. Excessive overtime also comes with a lot of built in excuses for the cheater to use on an unsuspecting spouse: cutbacks, a critical project or impending deadline.

And it is usually during these periods of excessive work hours that spouses susceptible to wandering find comfort in another person, usually a co-worker. That person, sharing the same stresses, can sympathize with the cheating spouse on the problems in the marriage.

Since working late and weekends are activities so integrated in normal lives, it s easy to overlook excessive overtime when considering a spouse s possible adultery. Almost all working adults have had to work overtime at one point or another.

Although excessive overtime can be ignored safely by many spouses, it is normal to question sudden changes in overtime patterns, especially when accompanied by another infidelity sign, such as changes in appearance for the better. In such cases, the overtime was definitely a clue not to be ignored.