Many have concerns. Here is some free advice you can use to save your marriage

If you want to save your troubled marriage, but don t think you know where to start, don t feel alone! Millions of couples out there struggle with the idea of seeking help to rescue their relationship. After all, it s not as if you were given an instruction book on your wedding day.

You might be struggling with some very common concerns people have about seeking help. Here are some frequent concerns, and why you shouldn t worry about them:

1. People will think I m crazy, or a failure. No rational person is going to call you crazy for seeking help! In fact, there is nothing saner than seeking help to fix a troubled relationship. It s one of the smartest things you can do!

2. We can t afford it. There are many free and cost-effective alternatives to classic therapy for couples in financial stress. Many local churches offer seminars or have counselors who are willing to assist you.

3. Counselors only work with couples, and my spouse won t go. Therapists regularly deal with patients in your position. If you are serious about getting help but have to do it alone, by all means, get the help! Your spouse may reconsider later on.