Many ask, Can I Save My Marriage? Well, the answer is YES , and we ll show you a winning technique

Saving your marriage requires improved communication skills. You can t whine your way to happiness. Negative communication is detrimental to any relationship worth saving.

When you whine about things not going your way, you re not doing anything to save your rleationship.

When you nag your spouse into doing things you want done, you re not helping the situation.

When you criticize your spouse, you re contributing the the problem.

In fact, when you do any of those things, whenever you choose negative communication over positive, you re just hurting your marriage, not saving it!

Instead of voicing the negative about a situation, try looking for a positive. If your spouse is late coming home from work, don t complain because you ve missed the movie! Suggest an alternative (like espresso at the new coffee house), and turn the lose-lose situation into a winning one.

If your relationship is in trouble, and you recognize that it is, and you want to fix your marriage, it is more important than ever to quit whining! If your relationship is in trouble, stress levels are enhanced and nerves are touchier than usual. Additional complaints only worsen a bad situation.

To save your marriage, quit the whining - it s not going to work.

Negotiate (calmly!) an agreeable compromise. Your relationship is worth saving. So, give it a chance.