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How to Spot and Stop Emotional Infidelity

Romantic feelings for someone other than one’s partner can be just as bad as sexual intimacy in terms of the trust that is broken in the relationship.

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Relationships Benefit From Single Couples Therapy

One researcher has found that both partners benefit from couples therapy, even if only one person attends. The long-term results of therapy seem to be best when it is the woman who sees the therapist, possibly because the skills she learns are easily taught.

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Happily Ever After Requires Seeing Spouse’s Flaws Before the Wedding

When newly married couples can admit to their own shortcomings and view disagreements as opportunities to learn conflict resolution skills, they will be on the road to a long and happy union.

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Understanding Attachment Styles in Intimate Relationships

Differing attachment styles and need for physical contact may lead to misunderstandings and conflict in a relationship, but just a little compromise on each side can result in everyone’s needs being met.

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Nagging: The Vicious Cycle of Fighting Over Fighting

Countless couples enter into marriage blissfully, fully respecting each other’s personalities and desires. However, before they know it, they’ve begun to engage in a pattern of communication that is negative and destructive and quickly can snowball out of control: nagging. Why do partners nag one another? According to Scott Wetzler, psychologist and vice chairman of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Montefiore Medical Center in New York, nagging occurs when one person feels that his or her needs are not being met. In a recent article, Wetzler explains that nagging is a lose-lose situation. The person being nagged …(See More)

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Is Your Marriage Counseling Working?

With the end of the year approaching, many of us are beginning to take stock of our lives and accomplishments. We may be reevaluating goals we set for the previous year and looking at areas that we wish to improve in the next. But for couples who have been working to improve their marriage through counseling or therapy, determining if they are making genuine progress can be difficult. In a recent article, Susan Heitler, Ph.D., clinical psychologist and author, helps couples figure out how to assess their marital progress. “Many folks in marriage therapy are uncertain what to use as a measuring stick,” …(See More)

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Managing ADHD within Your Marriage

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) affects children throughout the world and many adults live with ADHD as well. For married couples, the presence of ADHD, whether diagnosed or not, can cause tension and frustration. Learning how to manage ADHD together in a healthy way is the topic of recent article by Rita Watson, MPH, relationship columnist and author. Watson, who served as Director of the Department of Psychiatry at Yale, wrote about a recent television appearance by Edward M. Hallowell, M.D. and his wife Sue. In her article, Dr. Hallowell was quoted as saying, “Sue and I encountered many of …(See More)

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Why Every Couple Should Have a Marriage Mentor

Creating a loving marriage is hard, or so we are told. But Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks, Ph.D.s and founders of the Hendricks Institute, an organization that teaches couples how to develop conscious loving unions, believe that is simply a myth. “Thinking love has to be hard is a paradigm, a collection of thoughts, feelings and intentions that produces a certain result,” wrote the Hendricks’ in a recent article. “It took us years of making love hard to figure out how to make it easy. With a little bit of mentoring, though, you can make rapid changes in circumstances that have …(See More)

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Forget Yourself to Strengthen Your Relationship

Long-term relationships experience ebbs and tides over time. In order to maintain a healthy, vibrant relationship through life changes, and in particular through mid-life, Douglas LaBier, Ph.D., a psychotherapist and Director of the Center for Progressive Development in Washington, D.C., believes partners need to focus on each other and forget themselves. “I think what helps support a long-term, positive relationship through midlife is not so much finding the right techniques – for good communication, compromise, and so forth,” said LaBier in a recent blog post. “Instead, it’s building your relationship’s spiritual core. By that I mean your sense of purpose and life goals as a couple; …(See More)

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4 Signs of Passive-Aggressive Behavior in a Relationship

Every relationship will suffer inevitable moments of silence or deep freezes in communication. Although these experiences can be frustrating, they are usually quickly resolved and do not leave long-term scars on either partner. But in a recent article, Signe Whitson, licensed social worker and author, identifies four distinct signs of behaviors that can be destructive to the core of a relationship. She describes passive aggressive behaviors when she says, “Passive aggression is a deliberate and masked way of expressing covert feelings of anger. It involves a variety of behaviors designed to get back at another person without the other recognizing …(See More)

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